Friends, marriage is a very sacred relationship. Some people say that the foundation of a marriage is love or faith etc., but above all this is Christ. Yes, Christ is the foundation of a married life.
It is very important for a Christian to live his/her married life with love, truth and honesty.
But in today’s era, many Christian families have suffered. There is only one reason, Satan.
Yes friends, Satan tries his best to break into Christian families!
It is a matter of regret that many Christian families are crumbling today, arguments on small things start, then fights and fights, and all these end with divorce.
How easy it is for Satan to separate a husband and wife.
Do you know? According to the Bible, leaving your wife and marrying another woman is adultery.
“Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery”
Luke 16:18
Yes, if you are thinking of doing such work then stop because the word of God will never go in vain.
Not every human being has the same situation, not everyone’s married life is the same as yours. Do you know? No marriage is in vain, God who is in heaven, He puts together man and woman so that they will always be together and praise God.
“So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. “
Matthew 19: 6
So now will you let this very sacred relationship break so easily? no! It is better that you pursue this relationship with God, and fill your life with happiness.
1- Overcoming anger.
Do you know controlling anger is very important in a marriage relationship? Sometimes it is very difficult and in some circumstances you lose your temper, then what? A heated argument ensues between husband and wife. But all of it can be controlled. The Bible teaches us-
“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires”
James 1: 19-20
“A gentle reply calms anger, but a harsh word provokes anger.”
Proverbs 15:1
Anger leads to evil. You may be right in your words, even if you are not the reason for the quarrel, or maybe your partner is. But still you should remain silent in such a situation. Being silent you do not become small nor do you become wrong. By staying calm you obey the words of Christ.
A Christian may be good outside, but if there is no peace in his home, it is useless to call himself a Christian.
Christ has inflicted so much suffering and condemnation on the cross for us. But still He never said anything bad to anyone, nor did He get angry. Guys do you know why? So that we may have peace and a new life.
“He was oppressed and afflicted, yet He did not open His mouth; He was led like a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before its shearers is silent, so He did not open His mouth. “
Isaiah 53:7
Jesus Christ did not open His mouth for us and endured a lot of whips. Friends, can we give nothing to Jesus Christ instead?
Therefore always remember the cross of Christ whenever there are arguments between you and your partner due to domestic issues. Just remember His sufferings. Calm yourself, bear everything for Christ’s sake.
I believe that God will surely give you the counter and you will soon find peace in your life.
2- Know each other more.
“Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her.”
Ephesians 5:22-25
If you are disappointed today about your married life, then always keep in mind one thing, God does not do anything in vain. Your marriage was also at God’s will. Let God’s will be fulfilled in your life, start praying today for your marriage. God is able to do everything.
Consider your husband or your wife better than yourself. Because this is what the Holy Scriptures teach us.
Husbands need to take care of their wives and take care of them, and wives need to be under their husbands.
Often the women of today are very irritated to hear why the wife should be under the husband, why the Bible teaches us. Sisters, we are all the creation of that great God. God has made us in such a way that we have been under our husbands. Because first the male was created and then the female.
According to Genesis 2:18, God created a woman for a man so that she could help him.
3- Weak sexual relationships.
Friends, this is also a very big reason for marital failure. It has become very common in today’s era. It has become so common that this problem is being seen in every 1 in 10 couples. This is one of the reasons for the breakdown of the Christian family.
Friends, nothing is impossible for God, He has the power to change all your circumstances.
If you feel that such a problem is there in your life too, then definitely start praying for this.
“Jesus looking at them said,” It is impossible for men, but everything is possible for God. “
Matthew 19:26
Yes friends Everything is possible for God.
Hand your married life to God. You have no such wish that God cannot hear.
4- Pray for each other.
Yes friends If you think that nothing good is happening in your life, one of the major reasons for this may be the lack of prayer. Whenever you get time in the day, try to pray more with your partner. Remember, God has not made you together in vain.
Prayer solves every problem. When you pray, your soul becomes connected with God and God through His Holy Spirit teaches you all the things.
Therefore, friends, stay in faith and make spiritual progress.
Amen.
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